THE CHARLES ROSS JOINES FAMILY WEB SITE
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married Jesse Mae Ervin on Tuesday, March 4, 1912 and they had seven daughters over the next twenty years.
Jessie Mae was Harriett and Tom Isbell allowed Jessie Mae and her husband Ross to choose among houses in Madisonville and Jessie chose a house on Henry It was a wonderful place to grow up and weekends there in the 40s and 50s meant, on a lot of occasions, the entire family including in-laws and all the grandchildren would gather for a lot of fun and good food. Jessie loved to cook and took pride in preparing plenty of good country food to eat.(The old home place on Henry Street was recently burnt to the ground.) Jessie Mae raised seven daughters and was a faithful wife and loving Mother. She was a wonderful cook and when she was only a teenager newly married she cooked for all the farm hands on her in-laws farm where she and Ross lived during their first years of marriage. Jessie's brother-in-law Fred and his wife Della lived near the Will Joines farm and Jessie Mae and Della would get together and sew their children's clothes. Jessie Mae was a lifelong quilt maker and made many, many beautiful quilts. Her daughter Harriette is also a wonderful quilt maker. Some of Jessie's priceless quilts are owned by daughters and granddaughters. Jessie Mae helped deliver some of the children of Ira (Doc) and Lucy Henry. Mrs. Henry delivered some of Jessie's children. They were neighbors on Henry Street for years and one of Mrs. Henry's children was named Jesse Ross after Mama & Papa. In the early 1950s Papa built a small neighborhood grocery store on Warren Street in Madisonville which he operated until he retired in the late 1960s. It was as much a place for people to hang out and drink cokes, eat a bologna and cheese sandwich and tell jokes as it was a grocery store. (BTW he would slice the bologna and cheese right there in front of you with a kitchen knife and allow you to tell him how thick you wanted each slice and what you wanted on it. He sold it by the pound and some would ask how much it weighed and if it was too much Papa had to slice him one a little thinner.) Although it was a small business most items were marked up only a penny or two so he could stay competitive with the larger stores in town. I remember some of the hard working people coming by and getting a few items and Papa would write it in a book and they would come by on payday and clear the bill. Sometimes a man who stopped in every day for months would get behind on his bill and as he walked home he would cross over to the other side of the street with his head down a little and pass on by and he wouldn’t stop in again until he was able to pay his bill and then he would be back in everyday again. I remember Papa hated it because they would spend cash at another store but not at his because they owed him money. It was a time when you had to pay a deposit on soft drink bottles when you took them home with you and Papa kept track of all his bottles and would have a case of empties ready for the drink vendor so he wouldn’t have to pay the extra for the deposit. He would get peeved when some of his regulars would come in and buy a carton of soft drinks and wouldn’t have the empties to trade in. He would say “It’s a funny thing to me they can carry them out full but they are too heavy to carry back empty!”.
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Family and friends are welcome to send more history, anecdotes, photos or comments! Below is a Family Record from Jessie's Family Bible |
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Below is an update on the Family Bible record above. 01/24/2012 |
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..............FATHER |
Birth
June 28, 1897 |
Death
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Age at Time of Death
87 |
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and be sure to read Memories of Papa by Barbara Jean Cornett |
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